Dealing effectively with “ourselves” can be a big challenge

Huh?      

Try as we might, despite best efforts, our false selves keep imposing and, getting in the way.  Wary and on guard, acting like small narcissistic trolls rushing-forward at a moments notice.  Pushing, berating, policing performance against almost everything, with loud outbursts of self-absorbed nostalgia.

Satisfaction and peace of mind have long since taken wing, freedom and happiness flying away, too.  Now stuck in the midst of our very own groundhog-day.  This nightmarish-scenario playing-out over, and over again. 

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As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what mattersSeneca

  • Most of the time we cruise through life on automatic pilot, gliding across the thin ice of denial.  Spinning and turning with desired perfection – using habit, pretence, self-image – as a means of trying to avoid the still black water of disappointment, inadequacy and fear that sit below.  But it doesn’t work
  • We get into a spot of bother.  Becoming fixated and rigid, stilted, wooden to the point of unnatural, firmly set in our ways.  And suffer.  Pretending that we don’t, deep-down knowing that we do
  • Life taking-on a beige pastiche of getting-by, trying not to fail.  Working hard at eliminating, diminishing, camouflaging our inadequacies.  Needing to be careful, else small slip-ups might trigger weaknesses into view, shaming, leaving us exposed.  Efforting manages to dull the vulnerability, but not making it disappear
  • Unwittingly also, destroying the top, our unrealised higher potential, by replacing with a lukewarm, average-middle-zone.  Personal upper and lower control-limits put in place, acting as self-imposed boundaries, to live within.  Cautiously staying in between, cocooned, in an intimate fortified-pod-of-protection, supposedly keeping us safe, and secure

Growing new versus going through

  • Taking a walk on the wild side, Mark Twain captured wonderfully well, the unheralded shortcomings and frontier-foibles of our rudimentary-view – “when we remember we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained”
  • An interesting take on what Shakespeare might not have actually meant by ‘to thine own self be true’  nevertheless, right-on-the-money.  And, it does not just end there; as our ‘madness’ also comes with close family ties
  • For, only by realising the extent to which we are driven by the sibling vanity of our endeavours, smallness of our attachments, urgency of our aversion, can we free ourselves from our walled-constraints, and the “stuckness of our situation”.  Ceasing the mindless chatter, needless action, mirage-like daydreaming, of seeking a more comfortable, controlled way, of skating through life

“What we achieve inwardly will change outer reality”

Plutarch

Awareness and practice not perfection leads to growth and mastery

We can awaken to self-knowledge and, a sense of who we are, through the relentless practice of observation.

Self-awareness is not analysis; nor meditating silently under a tree or, needing a mindfulness retreat to reach higher ground; it is simply noticing what we think, how we react, and what our subtle, over-used strategies for coping are.

If we notice, notice, notice; observing ourselves objectively – that is, without judgment – we can begin to see clearly our limited ideas of how we are supposed to be, how others are meant to behave, how life should turn-out.

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